WE ASKED URBAN RITUELLE MUMS ABOUT MOTHERHOOD & ‘WORDS OF WISDOM’ TO SHARE
With Mother’s Day on the horizon, we asked our Urban Rituelle Mum’s about their favourite moments in motherhood. What inspires them, their most rewarding moments, and their most treasured memories.
Leanne, Co-Founder • Mum to Leilani & Malia
What has been your most rewarding moment as a Mum? This morning I took my daughters to a Business Chicks event to listen to the Australian of the Year, Grace Tame tell her story. My teenage girls were amongst 1000 business women & men. They were so engaged, so open & willing to learn. They were brave & courageous, listening to her story. They were introduced to CEO’s & business owners, having conversations with people more than twice their age. My heart was bursting with joy to see what incredible young women they are both becoming.
What has surprised you most about Motherhood? How your heart can be filled to the brim with love for your children but that their stuff left on the kitchen bench can drive you to complete madness!
What are the best “words of wisdom” about Motherhood that has been passed on to you? Your job as a parent is to help your teenagers cross over the swaying, rickety suspension bridge held between two strong stone pillars. They leave childhood & cross the dangerous bridge over a raging river, into adulthood. There isn’t enough room to walk alongside them. They have to do it alone. But you are always there, encouraging them & ready to catch them as they reach the other side.
Any advice for new Mums? Don’t ever compare yourself to others, don’t be hard on yourself, this is new for both of you. Babies cry, its normal, it usually means they are hungry, this was a great learning for me! Enjoy every single moment because it does go so quickly. My mum always told me to not stress about the mess (but I still do!)
Your Mother’s Day Gift of Choice:
My favourite way to unwind is to light a scented candle, lock the door, play some tunes & relax in a bubble bath. This special Mother’s Day candle is guaranteed to light up any Mum’s day & help her relax & unwind.
Rae, Business Development Manager • Mum to Indi & Kalani
What has been your most rewarding moment as a Mum?
When I see my girls be kind to others and think kindly about others. That always makes me the proudest.
What has surprised you most about Motherhood?
You can be confident about many things in life, but when it comes to being a good Mum, you always question yourself and feel like you’re stuffing up.
What are the best “words of wisdom” about Motherhood that has been passed on to you?
Never go to sleep on an argument.
Any advice for new Mums?
We are all winging it. Every child and family situation is different and no-one has it all figured out. Never be afraid to speak up and ask for help if you need it. You are enough!
Your Mother’s Day Gift of Choice:
Scented Offerings ‘Love’ Scented Soy Candle
I love the sentiment of gifting ‘love’ for Mother’s Day. The heart-warming scent of neroli blossom, a aromatic cardamom & sweet musk is divine and a long time Urban Rituelle favourite.
Alana, Inventory Manager • Mum to Will & Jack
What has been your most rewarding moment as a Mum?
When I see my boys support each other in times of need. Hearing them say their own version of kind & caring words I have said to them to bring comfort to each other just melts my heart.
What has surprised you most about Motherhood?
What little sleep a mum can survive on.
What are the best “words of wisdom” about Motherhood that has been passed on to you?
Treat others the way you would like to be treated.
Any advice for new Mums?
Your babies will grow so, so fast. Cherish every moment because it goes by in the blink of an eye.
Your Mother’s Day Gift of Choice:
Natural Remedy Aromatherapy Scented Soy Candle
I LOVE the invigorating scent of our newest candle. For a cosy night of pampering, this candle promises to rejuvenate the senses.
